/r/BDSMcommunity - top ten submissions for each month of 2025
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BDSMcommunity 2024
2025, June
446 Thanks for the foreplay advice – it triggered o...
356 Safewording because of bathroom emergency.
273 In a couple hours I will enter an apartment whe...
261 It's kinda funny how framing is practically the...
211 My gf is into hard spanking, but I feel really ...
180 Emotionally Manipulative Language
159 Got my wife into BDSM/Kink and then she left me...
123 Whats the craziest thing you've heard someone s...
115 The Doms in my DMs
113 My boyfriend wants to try using a belt as a whi...
2025, May
647 My financial vocabulary is now fully kink-coded...
353 What do you HATE the most about the BDSM COMMUN...
289 Positions that make you feel the most subby?
289 Good scene but mentally not ok
280 Girlfriend wants “barely legal forced cnc” - bu...
263 Is there an opposite of sub drop? Like…dom rise?
243 Forced Affirmations?
192 Sub came with a cock ring on... is that normal?
190 Wife sorta freaked out after doing really kinky...
184 What's your favorite Dom move lately?
2025, April
576 Parents found my toys box, and it didn't go well.
335 Free idea: Restrain and gag your sub, then make...
296 TIL it's okay to have a safeword in findom
282 I think my husband has misconceptions of BDSM d...
245 How to use power play in public without weirdin...
235 What’s a kink or dynamic you used to avoid… unt...
210 Wonder Woman was originally kinky?
207 Realistic Free Use Day
205 Is this a common fantasy for women?
194 When did we start skipping the 'getting to know...
2025, March
1073 Dom abandoned me while restrained
374 Does anyone else find a lot of online BDSM cont...
350 Subtle signs that someone is kinky?
322 Consensual choking is a crime in the UK, though...
289 I betrayed my subs trust.
260 I built a play space with my wife’s Dom
227 is there a name to this kink?
224 Submissive has latched on way too fast
214 Personal/Hookup Posts Are NOT Allowed in This S...
201 coregasms - consent violation?
2025, February
524 Insane new scene idea my bf had
417 How do I delicately tell my dom that I don't wa...
360 Girlfriend told me her kinks and need some help...
320 Is fin-dom just synonymous with scammers now?
249 Is it alright to go to a munch if you aren’t lo...
227 I was at a kink event where very intoxicated pe...
203 My parents are suspicious of me going to a kink...
198 What makes people decide to wear buttplugs duri...
196 Doms, is there a short phrase you like to say t...
191 What are some ways to "treat a submissive woman...
2025, January
419 Am I the only one super pissed off after watchi...
419 Male gynecologist with a gyno-kink
335 How The Fuck Are We Supposed To Keep Our Mouth ...
254 My dom dropped me during sub drop
239 Wife doesn't actually like any of my kinks - wh...
198 Subtle expressions of dominance
185 Forced bi training on women
164 Why do people (usually illiterate men) pretend ...
153 How common is strict monogamy and a private kin...
140 We created our first unique ritual. Wanted to s...