/r/BDSMcommunity - top ten submissions for each month of 2025

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2025, March
Dom abandoned me while restrained
1073 Dom abandoned me while restrained
Does anyone else find a lot of online BDSM cont...
374 Does anyone else find a lot of online BDSM cont...
Subtle signs that someone is kinky?
350 Subtle signs that someone is kinky?
Consensual choking is a crime in the UK, though...
322 Consensual choking is a crime in the UK, though...
I betrayed my subs trust.
289 I betrayed my subs trust.
I built a play space with my wife’s Dom
260 I built a play space with my wife’s Dom
is there a name to this kink?
227 is there a name to this kink?
Submissive has latched on way too fast
224 Submissive has latched on way too fast
Personal/Hookup Posts Are NOT Allowed in This S...
214 Personal/Hookup Posts Are NOT Allowed in This S...
coregasms - consent violation?
201 coregasms - consent violation?
2025, February
Insane new scene idea my bf had
524 Insane new scene idea my bf had
How do I delicately tell my dom that I don't wa...
417 How do I delicately tell my dom that I don't wa...
Girlfriend told me her kinks and need some help...
360 Girlfriend told me her kinks and need some help...
Is fin-dom just synonymous with scammers now?
320 Is fin-dom just synonymous with scammers now?
Is it alright to go to a munch if you aren’t lo...
249 Is it alright to go to a munch if you aren’t lo...
I was at a kink event where very intoxicated pe...
227 I was at a kink event where very intoxicated pe...
My parents are suspicious of me going to a kink...
203 My parents are suspicious of me going to a kink...
What makes people decide to wear buttplugs duri...
198 What makes people decide to wear buttplugs duri...
Doms, is there a short phrase you like to say t...
196 Doms, is there a short phrase you like to say t...
What are some ways to "treat a submissive woman...
191 What are some ways to "treat a submissive woman...
2025, January
Am I the only one super pissed off after watchi...
419 Am I the only one super pissed off after watchi...
Male gynecologist with a gyno-kink
419 Male gynecologist with a gyno-kink
How The Fuck Are We Supposed To Keep Our Mouth ...
335 How The Fuck Are We Supposed To Keep Our Mouth ...
My dom dropped me during sub drop
254 My dom dropped me during sub drop
Wife doesn't actually like any of my kinks - wh...
239 Wife doesn't actually like any of my kinks - wh...
Subtle expressions of dominance
198 Subtle expressions of dominance
Forced bi training on women
185 Forced bi training on women
Why do people (usually illiterate men) pretend ...
164 Why do people (usually illiterate men) pretend ...
How common is strict monogamy and a private kin...
153 How common is strict monogamy and a private kin...
We created our first unique ritual. Wanted to s...
140 We created our first unique ritual. Wanted to s...