/r/BDSMcommunity - top ten submissions for each month of 2026

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2026, April
anybody else struggling with the intersection o...
516 anybody else struggling with the intersection o...
I went to a BDSM party for the first time, it w...
427 I went to a BDSM party for the first time, it w...
I conditioned my gf
413 I conditioned my gf
What is a fantasy you have that you would play ...
386 What is a fantasy you have that you would play ...
My Master died
366 My Master died
Why do 'experienced' Doms disappear when I sugg...
320 Why do 'experienced' Doms disappear when I sugg...
Phrases from your Dom that runs your blood cold.
307 Phrases from your Dom that runs your blood cold.
My household is extremely anti-kink and it's af...
255 My household is extremely anti-kink and it's af...
Ended dynamic because sub had been lying about ...
250 Ended dynamic because sub had been lying about ...
Have you noticed any day collars in the wild?
224 Have you noticed any day collars in the wild?
2026, March
The more you respect her, the more she’ll let y...
629 The more you respect her, the more she’ll let y...
How do you stay safe during a gangbang?
391 How do you stay safe during a gangbang?
What's the nerdiest kinky idea you've ever had?
335 What's the nerdiest kinky idea you've ever had?
Overstepped a boundary I forgot to set
277 Overstepped a boundary I forgot to set
Doms, what is your favourite thing your submiss...
267 Doms, what is your favourite thing your submiss...
Why is "I'm proud of you" sexier than any filth...
251 Why is "I'm proud of you" sexier than any filth...
How do I clicker train my boyfriend?
223 How do I clicker train my boyfriend?
Impact to the breasts can cause benign cysts - ...
204 Impact to the breasts can cause benign cysts - ...
What's the dirtiest, hottest text you've ever r...
199 What's the dirtiest, hottest text you've ever r...
What do you do when your partner is tied up?
186 What do you do when your partner is tied up?
2026, February
Hooked up with a guy, did an impact scene then ...
727 Hooked up with a guy, did an impact scene then ...
Update : GF keeps teasing me about pee - turns ...
518 Update : GF keeps teasing me about pee - turns ...
Safety warning about WinterFire (Dark Odyssey)
454 Safety warning about WinterFire (Dark Odyssey)
Got my pussy taped.....
372 Got my pussy taped.....
I'm a pleasure dom's nightmare
322 I'm a pleasure dom's nightmare
Looking for a more relaxed/silly kind of kink -...
303 Looking for a more relaxed/silly kind of kink -...
Don't give up your kinkiness for someone else
268 Don't give up your kinkiness for someone else
"Harmless" ways to have sex hurt for her/be uns...
262 "Harmless" ways to have sex hurt for her/be uns...
The most kinky thing to say in vanilla life tha...
223 The most kinky thing to say in vanilla life tha...
Feminization kink as a girl?
190 Feminization kink as a girl?
2026, January
Why do people say they want a submissive… but f...
382 Why do people say they want a submissive… but f...
Too scared to put 'sub' in my Tinder bio.
297 Too scared to put 'sub' in my Tinder bio.
Does anyone know anyone/anywhere that makes str...
280 Does anyone know anyone/anywhere that makes str...
What I Wish Someone Had Told Me Early in BDSM
264 What I Wish Someone Had Told Me Early in BDSM
Have you ever given up kink because you were in...
246 Have you ever given up kink because you were in...
That moment the "ego" finally turns off.
235 That moment the "ego" finally turns off.
What is a kink you didn’t think you’d be into?
213 What is a kink you didn’t think you’d be into?
Bimbofication is a wild kink!
198 Bimbofication is a wild kink!
Silly scenes that don't even seem like d/s from...
179 Silly scenes that don't even seem like d/s from...
My praise kink is becoming genuinely unbearable
170 My praise kink is becoming genuinely unbearable