/r/BDSMcommunity - top ten submissions for each month of 2024

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2024, August

I'm fed up with my ex sub having her doms messa...

403 I'm fed up with my ex sub having her doms messa...

What's the dirtiest, hottest text you've ever r...

358 What's the dirtiest, hottest text you've ever r...

Question for people who like eating ass…

322 Question for people who like eating ass…

UPDATE: How to stop my ex sub from having her p...

305 UPDATE: How to stop my ex sub from having her p...

What's your opinion on CNC/Free-Use? Do you lik...

314 What's your opinion on CNC/Free-Use? Do you lik...

So apparently “orgasm by butt-punching” is a thing

301 So apparently “orgasm by butt-punching” is a thing

What is the strangest thing you’ve ever had ins...

250 What is the strangest thing you’ve ever had ins...

How do you explain the bruises, scratches, and ...

240 How do you explain the bruises, scratches, and ...

Seriously what do you wear to a sex club?

233 Seriously what do you wear to a sex club?

What quality of life rules do you have for your...

229 What quality of life rules do you have for your...

2024, July

My posts aren’t my consent

545 My posts aren’t my consent

I visited a play space recently and they had an...

464 I visited a play space recently and they had an...

Does anyone else despise the fetlife user exper...

438 Does anyone else despise the fetlife user exper...

What’s the most memorable safe word?

339 What’s the most memorable safe word?

Has BDSM ever sent you to the hospital?

329 Has BDSM ever sent you to the hospital?

Silly Sex Games - Pin The Girl On The Tail

314 Silly Sex Games - Pin The Girl On The Tail

So I saw some stuff in public that I'm not sure...

308 So I saw some stuff in public that I'm not sure...

What is something you fantasized but would neve...

309 What is something you fantasized but would neve...

Hot take: 'fake Doms' arent a thing.

307 Hot take: 'fake Doms' arent a thing.

What BDSM kind of fantasy turn you on but you w...

304 What BDSM kind of fantasy turn you on but you w...

2024, June

Domme half of a couple I play with broke a gold...

616 Domme half of a couple I play with broke a gold...

babygirls, what’s something your Daddy does tha...

492 babygirls, what’s something your Daddy does tha...

I have this kink but no word to describe it...

436 I have this kink but no word to describe it...

What is a kink you have that people often misun...

425 What is a kink you have that people often misun...

Kinky/cute: things that are not what they seem

371 Kinky/cute: things that are not what they seem

i wish that mutual obsession & romance was ...

310 i wish that mutual obsession & romance was ...

What kink do you wish was more acceptable in pu...

302 What kink do you wish was more acceptable in pu...

What’s the best non-bedroom command you’ve hear...

279 What’s the best non-bedroom command you’ve hear...

I am BEGGING someone to help me figure out how ...

271 I am BEGGING someone to help me figure out how ...

NSFW My home got destroyed and I had to tell se...

262 NSFW My home got destroyed and I had to tell se...

2024, May

It's wild how anti-kink the 50 Shades series is

657 It's wild how anti-kink the 50 Shades series is

I love MAKING my partner drink enough water

505 I love MAKING my partner drink enough water

My wife and I discovered a fetish we love and d...

495 My wife and I discovered a fetish we love and d...

Caught feelings for my dom. Update!

465 Caught feelings for my dom. Update!

What movie/tv show scene wasn’t meant to be hot...

429 What movie/tv show scene wasn’t meant to be hot...

Innocent kinks you do in public

369 Innocent kinks you do in public

I cried after having rope play

303 I cried after having rope play

Let’s talk about Brats (and why I seem to be th...

296 Let’s talk about Brats (and why I seem to be th...

Would you let your sub sit on your face?

282 Would you let your sub sit on your face?

(Men/Women/Otherwise) who have a submissive par...

254 (Men/Women/Otherwise) who have a submissive par...

2024, April

Hot take: "No limits" is always a lie

701 Hot take: "No limits" is always a lie

I (22m) agreed to let my girlfriend (18f) peg m...

530 I (22m) agreed to let my girlfriend (18f) peg m...

My wife recently opened up to me about her havi...

465 My wife recently opened up to me about her havi...

What clothing isn’t kink wear but feels a bit l...

356 What clothing isn’t kink wear but feels a bit l...

This pleasure dom thing has got me confused

356 This pleasure dom thing has got me confused

"I would never... um, wait, apparently I would!"

343 "I would never... um, wait, apparently I would!"

Has anyone here ever been to a slave auction? W...

277 Has anyone here ever been to a slave auction? W...

Is being a bisexual woman who is wanting to be ...

270 Is being a bisexual woman who is wanting to be ...

What is the one thing your Partner does that me...

269 What is the one thing your Partner does that me...

What's the most popular kink that's your limit?

267 What's the most popular kink that's your limit?

2024, March

For people who have sex multiple times a day (f...

565 For people who have sex multiple times a day (f...

I think my Domme abused me and tried to make it...

489 I think my Domme abused me and tried to make it...

I have a secret fetish of very extreme intense ...

436 I have a secret fetish of very extreme intense ...

I need to know the name of my kink it sounds sc...

418 I need to know the name of my kink it sounds sc...

Free use and the way a woman’s body works

398 Free use and the way a woman’s body works

mouth soaping alternative that's safer and tast...

353 mouth soaping alternative that's safer and tast...

Am I weird for being upset about this?

336 Am I weird for being upset about this?

Subs who are the exact opposite outside the bed...

312 Subs who are the exact opposite outside the bed...

Is there an alternative to fetlife that younger...

303 Is there an alternative to fetlife that younger...

How to reject people at play parties?

262 How to reject people at play parties?

2024, February

PSA: How Alexa told our family we are into BDSM

709 PSA: How Alexa told our family we are into BDSM

Unowned subs? How we holding up?

368 Unowned subs? How we holding up?

For Pete’s Sake….

366 For Pete’s Sake….

His aftercare felt like foreplay and I don’t kn...

358 His aftercare felt like foreplay and I don’t kn...

What's one piece of kink knowledge you wish you...

320 What's one piece of kink knowledge you wish you...

How do I suck a dick as a domme?

314 How do I suck a dick as a domme?

Is it weird or wrong to show off my sex dungeon?

317 Is it weird or wrong to show off my sex dungeon?

What's your most unusual limit?

253 What's your most unusual limit?

What is a kink you never thought you’d be into ...

253 What is a kink you never thought you’d be into ...

Findom- But I fix their finances instead?

251 Findom- But I fix their finances instead?

2024, January

Thought it was common knowledge but since it is...

1442 Thought it was common knowledge but since it is...

Did I react poorly to this interaction at a munch?

574 Did I react poorly to this interaction at a munch?

My Dom almost hit me & now I’m confused.

441 My Dom almost hit me & now I’m confused.

Dom punished me for "talking back"

348 Dom punished me for "talking back"

My Domme has a Dom, do I owe him anything?

346 My Domme has a Dom, do I owe him anything?

Why do i see my partner differently since we've...

323 Why do i see my partner differently since we've...

Safe Word

Submissives: What’s your favorite rule?

238 Submissives: What’s your favorite rule?

Considering The Huge Risks Associated With Brea...

233 Considering The Huge Risks Associated With Brea...

What super common & non-extreme kinks are turno...

218 What super common & non-extreme kinks are turno...