/r/BDSMcommunity - top ten submissions for each month of 2023

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2023, December
Roommate says I’m not a lesbian because I’m int...
388 Roommate says I’m not a lesbian because I’m int...
What are some lesser known kink hacks?
385 What are some lesser known kink hacks?
Submissives: What's your favorite rule?
354 Submissives: What's your favorite rule?
What to do while my husband fucks someone else?
248 What to do while my husband fucks someone else?
Is it possible for a machine to empirically rea...
243 Is it possible for a machine to empirically rea...
Are more women squirting? And am an asshole for...
229 Are more women squirting? And am an asshole for...
Why are so many 'doms' secretly subs
228 Why are so many 'doms' secretly subs
Painless punishment.
225 Painless punishment.
Why is it that if a man did anything a book cha...
213 Why is it that if a man did anything a book cha...
Getting called daddy
209 Getting called daddy
2023, November
Funny story about respecting safewords
429 Funny story about respecting safewords
What’s with the whorephobia?
400 What’s with the whorephobia?
Agricultural shops are gold mines
301 Agricultural shops are gold mines
Is the Venn diagram of "Likes BDSM" and "Likes ...
299 Is the Venn diagram of "Likes BDSM" and "Likes ...
My Daddy passed and I’m really struggling
292 My Daddy passed and I’m really struggling
Girls, what are some of your favorite praise ki...
285 Girls, what are some of your favorite praise ki...
Insertable onna-holes should be a thing.
258 Insertable onna-holes should be a thing.
Being a lesbian looking to engage in the BDSM c...
256 Being a lesbian looking to engage in the BDSM c...
What (if anything) is the "gateway drug" of bdsm?
233 What (if anything) is the "gateway drug" of bdsm?
Just thought I'd share a hack I've discovered
230 Just thought I'd share a hack I've discovered
2023, October
I was banned from a clothing subreddit simply b...
901 I was banned from a clothing subreddit simply b...
What's your most unusual kink?
411 What's your most unusual kink?
I am traumatized after playing with my dom & do...
405 I am traumatized after playing with my dom & do...
I asked my BF to do a Nurturing scene and wow.....
383 I asked my BF to do a Nurturing scene and wow.....
I screwed up
379 I screwed up
Making this from an alt account, because it was...
372 Making this from an alt account, because it was...
What normal thing about your dom turns you on l...
345 What normal thing about your dom turns you on l...
Locktober made me experience true submission fo...
274 Locktober made me experience true submission fo...
Human furniture of Reddit, what activities do y...
260 Human furniture of Reddit, what activities do y...
I passed out during choke play and am really sh...
247 I passed out during choke play and am really sh...
2023, September
My Dom has turned "play" into reality and it's ...
683 My Dom has turned "play" into reality and it's ...
Boyfriend face-fucked me without prior discussion
605 Boyfriend face-fucked me without prior discussion
I've never been on the submissive side, but I m...
502 I've never been on the submissive side, but I m...
Sub (with brat tendencies) just admitted she do...
479 Sub (with brat tendencies) just admitted she do...
I tried to switch with my Dom and he laughed at...
423 I tried to switch with my Dom and he laughed at...
I KNOW I’m a submissive but I’m married and...
428 I KNOW I’m a submissive but I’m married and...
Are vanilla "fuck boys" ruining the bdsm dating...
387 Are vanilla "fuck boys" ruining the bdsm dating...
Why do you like CNC?
344 Why do you like CNC?
When does facefucking become too much for the t...
328 When does facefucking become too much for the t...
Boyfriend wants me to let him inflict pain on m...
325 Boyfriend wants me to let him inflict pain on m...
2023, August
My Dom wanted to try M/s instead of D/s and Iâ€...
1382 My Dom wanted to try M/s instead of D/s and Iâ€...
What is this kink called because I'm obsessed w...
724 What is this kink called because I'm obsessed w...
Have certain words been ruined for you for ever...
714 Have certain words been ruined for you for ever...
Vagina people who have pegged/fucked with a str...
599 Vagina people who have pegged/fucked with a str...
My (24f) bf (42m) has been rougher with sex and...
481 My (24f) bf (42m) has been rougher with sex and...
Building a house: what kinky bits would you inc...
381 Building a house: what kinky bits would you inc...
Please don't try to convince people their limit...
368 Please don't try to convince people their limit...
To the people whose first language isn't Englis...
347 To the people whose first language isn't Englis...
Can only orgasm from pain
335 Can only orgasm from pain
Where do kinky people go for their online smut ...
324 Where do kinky people go for their online smut ...
2023, July
Consent ≠ enjoyment
989 Consent ≠ enjoyment
I have a fetish I've never seen anywhere else. ...
870 I have a fetish I've never seen anywhere else. ...
I (19f) have a huge voice kink and almost every...
582 I (19f) have a huge voice kink and almost every...
A Small Change To Our Aftercare Routine Had A B...
522 A Small Change To Our Aftercare Routine Had A B...
What’s a dead giveaway that someone is kinky ...
466 What’s a dead giveaway that someone is kinky ...
I'm shaken after my first time being tied up an...
465 I'm shaken after my first time being tied up an...
Has anyone else noticed a dramatic drop in qual...
361 Has anyone else noticed a dramatic drop in qual...
Am I right to feel this is icky?
305 Am I right to feel this is icky?
Is it wrong to reject someone because one of th...
259 Is it wrong to reject someone because one of th...
Sub likes to wrestle but she's a black belt
246 Sub likes to wrestle but she's a black belt
2023, June
Worst punishment I have ever received
716 Worst punishment I have ever received
My wife and I are trying free use
644 My wife and I are trying free use
A little gold star.
534 A little gold star.
The guy I was into called me some unpolite name...
531 The guy I was into called me some unpolite name...
Is there a term for when you act naive that sex...
419 Is there a term for when you act naive that sex...
My girl has an "ownership" kink, what are some ...
311 My girl has an "ownership" kink, what are some ...
Can anyone recommend a non wand option for forc...
290 Can anyone recommend a non wand option for forc...
Session ended awkwardly and now I feel down
233 Session ended awkwardly and now I feel down
subs with higher libido than their Doms?
234 subs with higher libido than their Doms?
Why are Boundhub and Heavyfetish popular?
224 Why are Boundhub and Heavyfetish popular?
2023, May
So I just found out monster fucking isn't normal
779 So I just found out monster fucking isn't normal
I accidentally told Siri she was a good girl af...
745 I accidentally told Siri she was a good girl af...
Submissives: What’s your favorite rule?
618 Submissives: What’s your favorite rule?
My submissive openly wore her collar out in pub...
599 My submissive openly wore her collar out in pub...
My dom panted like a dog.
556 My dom panted like a dog.
I let a ‘Yes Sir’ slip out while having van...
423 I let a ‘Yes Sir’ slip out while having van...
Having to take my collar off for the first time...
323 Having to take my collar off for the first time...
What are some good songs about BDSM?
281 What are some good songs about BDSM?
YOUR Favorite Kink As a Submissive
273 YOUR Favorite Kink As a Submissive
I made a playlist that include all the bdsm the...
234 I made a playlist that include all the bdsm the...
2023, April
I just learned the term Pleasure Dom and I fina...
748 I just learned the term Pleasure Dom and I fina...
I [M22] scolded my GF [F20] before her punishme...
743 I [M22] scolded my GF [F20] before her punishme...
Bay Area Kink Event Canceled by Hate
596 Bay Area Kink Event Canceled by Hate
My Dom's dirty talk makes me cringe
548 My Dom's dirty talk makes me cringe
D-types are people too
533 D-types are people too
Anyone else’s pets interfere hilariously?
451 Anyone else’s pets interfere hilariously?
I decided to end my relationship with someone w...
362 I decided to end my relationship with someone w...
Do you feel like lesbians aren’t present/visi...
317 Do you feel like lesbians aren’t present/visi...
Shamed (40f) by recent ex (43m)
282 Shamed (40f) by recent ex (43m)
Doctor appointment while being covered in bruises
281 Doctor appointment while being covered in bruises
2023, March
Gave the nurse a laugh today
1873 Gave the nurse a laugh today
Went waaaay too far with self-bondage tonight. ...
671 Went waaaay too far with self-bondage tonight. ...
what are the best praise kink phrases?
571 what are the best praise kink phrases?
A girl wore an "I <3 SUBMISSIVE MEN" shirt at t...
512 A girl wore an "I <3 SUBMISSIVE MEN" shirt at t...
I got collared! :)
480 I got collared! :)
Degradation favourites
465 Degradation favourites
being raped ruined my rape kink
392 being raped ruined my rape kink
Wearing a butt plug at work is ethical, right? ...
326 Wearing a butt plug at work is ethical, right? ...
Do you have a task or chore you hate but added ...
325 Do you have a task or chore you hate but added ...
Have you ever scared someone away by sharing ki...
261 Have you ever scared someone away by sharing ki...
2023, February
A brat isn't a poorly behaved submissive!
790 A brat isn't a poorly behaved submissive!
We impulse bought a heavy duty sex sling and fr...
608 We impulse bought a heavy duty sex sling and fr...
You know you're in a kinky relationship when...
493 You know you're in a kinky relationship when...
Using pet names with a sub is a privilege not a...
433 Using pet names with a sub is a privilege not a...
How many of y'all actually are into D&D and oth...
392 How many of y'all actually are into D&D and oth...
Master built up my self-esteem in the best poss...
378 Master built up my self-esteem in the best poss...
I took y'all's advice and I got dominated as a ...
306 I took y'all's advice and I got dominated as a ...
Why can't some people just hire a sex worker?
283 Why can't some people just hire a sex worker?
Why does no one tell you about the PAP (Post An...
253 Why does no one tell you about the PAP (Post An...
Do any Doms or Subs find it attractive when the...
219 Do any Doms or Subs find it attractive when the...
2023, January
Aftercare is watching my Dom fit 23 grapes in h...
647 Aftercare is watching my Dom fit 23 grapes in h...
I made a couple BDSM checklists because I didn'...
534 I made a couple BDSM checklists because I didn'...
Why is considered okay for Femdoms to be down r...
436 Why is considered okay for Femdoms to be down r...
I’m so jealous of people who can have casual sex
437 I’m so jealous of people who can have casual sex
The sexiest part of a D/s lifestyle is trust.
392 The sexiest part of a D/s lifestyle is trust.
Those with a degradation kink, what’s the hot...
340 Those with a degradation kink, what’s the hot...
I was a walking Red flag until I started attend...
272 I was a walking Red flag until I started attend...
What's a misconception about BDSM that really r...
266 What's a misconception about BDSM that really r...
People into BDSM are at least as healthy as Van...
256 People into BDSM are at least as healthy as Van...
Ending due to violating boundaries
255 Ending due to violating boundaries